So before I pour out my usual blabbings. I Wish to share with ya'all about my Status Message in FB
as shown below:
We heard alot about money is not a factor that control in order to maintain a relationship,
but what about the hardship, blood, sweat and tears dripped in order to exchange for it in a relationship?
Now let me ask you again,
is Money a factor in order to maintain a relationship?
now you know the question,
AND
might be wondering...
HOW on earth i get to think this type of silly business.
before i start my theories,
let me share with you a long boring story to start with:
Mr A and Ms S has been in a relationship together for around 2 ~ 3 years. (just an estimation, it's somewhere around there)
So, they argued a lot like normal couples and get back together AGAIN like any ordinary couples until one day.
Mr A told me that he broke up with Ms S.
So i ought to think that "Great, what's the point of telling me that, you guys will get back in 3, 2 , .... wait a sec."
and that thought stopped until Ms S told me that she already broke up AND had a bf in outstation.
Yes, Mr A is in KL and Ms S and I are studying together in a same place.
soooooooooooooooo,
basically, yeah. the outstation means Kampar.
so many many days later after that incident
Mr A and Ms S is single till date. note TILL DATE.
Ms S broke up after 2 weeks after the new relationship blooms.
The new bf asked for a break up since he still love the ex-gf.
(stupid guy actually. i never seen him before that from that, i can know that he is a dumb moron retard ass.)
what past should just left there untouch. that is what my theme stays and still standing. till date.
so back to the story.
Mr A and Ms S single.
and yeah, got told that Mr A used around 10k on Ms S,
and yes, FORCED Mr A to spill out some p&c stuffs. Hohohohoho *evil smirk* satisfaction.
but yet. his p&c makes me think that Mr A might be an idiot.
first off, he is afraid of Ms S. as in if Ms S just shout at him, he stays puppy. And Ms S sm him alot, physically without the sex part.
secondly, i forced him to tell me his progress after 2 ~ 3 years and 10k spend.
he told me. the furthest. Just grabbing and *intimate* kissing over her blossom.
i asked him, have you got a glimpse of the secret garden or even take a touch of it.
"No" was the answer...
ok he MIGHT sound Noble.
but hell.
these time of the year.
2 years + and 10k spendings. WITHOUT sex. is just plain dumb. I'm serious.
at least a hand job will be nice at a minimal level but nope. nothing cross that line.
so from this story. how on earth can i link between relationship and money.
IF you see this in Mr A's point of view.
you spend 10k and 2 years and your gf actually dump you for a guy who eventually in the end dumped her in the end.
what is your thought?
so if you see that,
"Guy spend money on his gf - Responsible"
who state this law?
there is no consideration in here.
Married couple - yes.
GF/BF - NO.
that refers to a working bf as well.
he is earning his share of work,
he can buy something for himself but then he saved it for some other purpose.
what he did is just to see a smile on your face and you too to make a smile on his face.
okay back to theories.
first off, both of you did not sign legal documents.
second off, we spend something on you so that you are happy and you makes us happy ... - this does not ends here
by doing something else in return. we don't need sex or whatever shit. but at least. your heart is with us.
if you think that we spend on you and we do not expect something in return. Great, you just degrade yourself in to the rank of - "Begger".
The Nature's Law.
yes, a male gifts the best for the females.......WHEN the female is pregnant with the seed of the male.
enough said, no further explanation required.
if you insist of having one,
ok here's a logic.
do you see any male animal will give food to a female who is having no relationship with him?
if there is a yes, then i expect your resources comes from either, Disney Channel or something equivalent with it.
okay....maybe on CNN
on a disaster strike country?
where social workers or self volunteer distribute foods to someone who is not capable of getting "NEEDS"?
Female rights.
Owh great. Yes, society USED to have bias on females. but now, almost everything is balanced.
but yet, you are still expecting something from a male.
so what now?
Society bias on males now? Geez. get real man. there is no free lunch, you want something then earn it yourself.
or at least trade something equivalent with it.
ok i'm tired and brain dead.
sorry females who are reading this post.
i know i sound harsh on you girls but this is the REALITY of the society but then.
Male are just dumb creatures who sacrifices for the greater good and happiness for his other half but we are still happy with it. because this so-called dumbness made us a "Man".
Love is a Sin. But I am happy to live this so-called "Sin", with me for eternity.
