LDR

So what does this LDR represents?

Long Distance Relationship i'd say.

as well as it represents.

Long Distance Ruins~

so well.

a couple friend of mine

(which mean i know both the bf and the gf)

broke up after a 3 years of relationship.

well the girl study as the same place as i do.

in Kampar, Perak of course.

and the guy's from my housing area.

Subang Jaya, Selangor.

then one day.

he messaged me over sms and sounds so emotional.

so i figured that something musta been wrong.

but of course.

didn't pay much attention,

so i test the girl instead.

and from there i found out that they have broken up.

well later on this girl told the guy that she had found a guy that she love over here.

and going to club with him yesterday night as at 10th April 2010.

so obviously the bf go emotional and all.

And yes,

back to Jeremy the Relationship Counselor.

finally chilled him down(I guess, after a long chat and he stop replying)

Not to say that LDR is bad or what

but.

It requires more than just Love to get the Bonds tight as it is.

effort, patience, trust and so on goes the list where it can go as far as it can.

whatever,

but i WILL not start a LDR.

it sucks seriously.

In My Opinion.

what for having a relationship that you can't be with the person by your side when you need him or her?

it's is something like DATING VIRTUALLY!

come one man, think about it!

Which of the following sounds absurd to you:

a) Nanotechnology

b) Cyborg

c) Jeremy is Fat

d) Long Distance Relationship.

It is absolutely bonding yourself to something that is unstable.

You don't know what's happening over the other end.

You aren't there for here.

You are not DATING her.

and of course this happens vice versa.

you may be a good person but who knows she found someone better over there while you aren't there to compete with the 3rd party?

obviously she/he won't able to tell you that,

"OMG darling, i found someone that treats me good over here, and not to mention that he/she is SUPER handsome like someone from DBSK/Tiara(or which ever boy/girl band you think is pretty)" at your face, right? Obviously such thing only happens over TVB drama.

WHAT IF she/he didn't tell you at all?

(be glad that she told you, why?read on. remember this is just an assumption. nothing to do with the real person. just came out from my out-of-the-world imaginary power.)

she might be fucking someone right behind your back?

making all those love bites like how she did it to your days back?

waking up at another guy's bed. NAKED. and their sweat sink in to the bed.

Used condoms in the dustbin.

her underwear throwing all over his place?

Yada...yada...yada...blah...blah...blah...

without telling you about it?

and where were you?

still waiting for her coming back to your arms.

STOP DREAMING MAN!

another delay is another pinch of salt sprayed on your wounds.

just without your realizing how hurt it is.

but the pains will one shot all come to you once you know about it.

It MIGHT kill you right on the spot. Trust me it is THAT pain.

So ending with a word of mine.

"Love can be so fragile when it is in a long distance relationship."